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A friend asks me to watch their pet in the afternoon. I work from home generally but I have meetings with people that afternoon and say I can't watch their pet. The friend then asks if my meetings are at my house or if they are telemeetings.

They're ignoring my response when I said 'no' and digging to see if I'll be at home (in which case their pet can roam around) even though I said I can't watch their pet.

Is there a word for this?

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  • Yes, you're being evasive. Commented May 30, 2017 at 17:01
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    I don't think Chris is being evasive -- they said clearly "no". But the friend keeps pushing -- that's what we call it when the kids do it -- to try and get around that no. Commented May 30, 2017 at 17:16
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    Chris, you are not being evasive. Your friend sounds as though "he won't take no for an answer." But let's not be too hard on him; he may not have a back-up pet sitter.
    – ab2
    Commented May 30, 2017 at 18:01
  • @ab2 -- you should post won't take no for an answer as an answer. Commented May 30, 2017 at 18:28
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    Your friend is being persistent [Continuing firmly or obstinately in an opinion or course of action in spite of difficulty or opposition.] {ODO: emphasis mine} Commented May 30, 2017 at 18:44

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Your friend won't take no for an answer. According to Dictionary.com.

Not accept a refusal, be persistent in demanding something, as in I want you to show me the statements and I won't take no for an answer. This idiom was first recorded in 1930 in Winston Churchill's My Early Life : “Don't take no for an answer, never submit to failure.”

Let's not be too hard on your friend; he probably doesn't have a back-up pet sitter.

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Your friend is badgering you.

To ask or nag ... in an annoying and persistent way; pester: badgered the boy into cleaning his room.

American Heritage Dictionary, 5th Ed.

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