I'm looking for a noun for somone who allows others to take advantage of them, similar in meaning to "sucker" or "sap" but less dated. For example, what would you call the one person who does work on a group project or the single responsible person among a bunch of freeloaders?
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1What makes you think sucker or sap are not understood or used by younger generations?– fevCommented 14 hours ago
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Which younger generations? Where?– Stuart FCommented 13 hours ago
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1Adjectives, offered here, are 'gullible' and 'naive'; if you require a noun only, please indicate this. Have you tried looking in a thesaurus? Pushover is offered here, in an earlier thread.– Edwin AshworthCommented 11 hours ago
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I'm in my 50s in the US, and "sucker" and "sap" sound to me like things that would be said in a black and white movie like Guys and Dolls. Google Books Ngram Viewer confirms that their usage in the last century peaked in the 1920s and 1930s. I'll rephrase my question.– Ellen SpertusCommented 10 hours ago
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The only noun I'd consider appropriate here is doormat, in the metaphorical usage, which 'feels' less dated† to me:
doormat [noun]
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[2] a submissive person who allows others to dominate them.
- to put up with such treatment you must be either a saint or a doormat_
Other synonyms, like 'patsy' and 'pushover', feel also too dated and/or too hypernymic. Though 'doormat' in the metaphorical usage cannot itself claim to be modern†; The Online Etymology Dictionary has it dating from at the latest 1861.
Where I hail from, that would be a chump:
chump noun
informal : a person who is easily tricked : a stupid or foolish person
Source: Merriam-Webster
You can find sample usages at Merriam-Webster’s How to Use chump in a Sentence. Here are a couple:
The former Gladiators who felt exploited by the show don’t want to be seen as chumps.
Stuck working in the city like a chump while your friends make their weekend treks to coastal properties?
Wiktionary list these as synonyms of chump:
(a gullible person): gull, sucker, dupe, sap, dummy, patsy, pigeon