Vanilla is often used figuratively and according to Collins Dictionary:

  • If you describe a person or thing as vanilla, you mean that they are ordinary, with no special or extra features.

    • ...just plain vanilla couples like me and Tony. The tensions of the Nixon presidency were replaced by the plain vanilla administration of a friendly, middle-aged, middle-class man from the Middle West.

Vocabulary.com suggests that the term vanilla has a “slightly insulting” nuance:

  • This word has another, slightly insulting, meaning: a vanilla movie is plain and kind of boring. A vanilla song is on the blah side. Maybe it's because vanilla food tends to be white and plain that we use this word for other things that are bland.

According to Etymonline this connotation is recent and was , apparently, initially used to refer to sex:

  • Meaning "conventional, of ordinary sexual preferences" is 1970s, from notion of whiteness and the common choice of vanilla ice cream.


1) Was the figurative usage of “vanilla”, as suggested above, first used with sexual reference, and later spread to more ordinary contexts or was it already used in more general context before the ‘70s?

2) Does the term convey a neutral or disparaging, however slight, connotation, when used referring to people, for instance: a vanilla guy, a vanilla couple etc.

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    As far as I know, it comes from ice cream vendors, particularly American soft serve ice cream, where the vanilla cone was the generic stating point and the cheapest, with everything else being up-charged. Fleet Owner magazine has a nice 1969 example of disparaging usage regarding plain vanilla fleet trucks, and having to wait months for vehicles built to order. They were, and remain to this day, painted white. I have also heard other ice cream terms used in way of contrast, eg., "I don't want a plain vanilla one, I want some sprinkles on it."
    – Phil Sweet
    Jun 22, 2018 at 14:08
  • Interestingly, the pairing "plain vanilla" seems to have come prepackaged from the ice cream business. The Ice Cream Trade Journal, 1910. The Soda Fountain, 1921.
    – Phil Sweet
    Jun 22, 2018 at 14:18
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    Etymonline doesn't say that the figurative use started in the 70's. It has been used to mean bland much longer, and in the 70's people started using this in reference to sexual preferences. I'm guessing this is a result of the sexual revolution in the 60's, which resulted in more open discussion of sex in general.
    – Barmar
    Jun 22, 2018 at 16:04
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    That's true, it doesn't say anything about earlier use figurative use. It doesn't say it doesn't exist, it just doesn't provide the history.
    – Barmar
    Jun 22, 2018 at 16:11
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    One other comment. Plain vanilla doesn't have to mean boring, but it does mean ordinary in the sense of not gussied up. Interestingly, gussy up and plain vanilla turn up together pretty often, and gussy up seems to have appeared about the same time. (Once upon a time, there was a soda jerk named Gus ... ? Okay, probably not.)
    – Phil Sweet
    Jun 24, 2018 at 17:22

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I think that the source of the idea of vanilla as bland and neutral is the expression "plain vanilla"—signifying vanilla as the primary flavoring (of a pudding, ice cream, cake batter, or other dessert). One of the first recorded instances where "plain vanilla' is used in this sense is in Nell Nelson, "Bun's Garden Party," in the [New York] Evening World (July 3, 1890):

Use pitted cherries, red currants and bits of apple, apricot, pineapple, apple and melon. Candied fruits are very nice and half a pound will fairly gem a three gallon can of cream and convert plain vanilla into Neapolitan, EVENING WORLD, Sick Baby cream or any other title you care to bestow.

For some reason "Sick Baby cream" never caught on—but "plain vanilla" as an undistinguished dessert base did. Another early instance of "plain vanilla" recommends using the psychology of food coloring to jazz up simple desserts. From "Red Sugar and Some Ways to Use It," in the [Sydney, New South Wales] Australian Town and Country Journal (November 10, 1900):

Ice-cream also is much more attractive if varied occasionally in appearance, and the first time it is served tinted to a dainty shade of pink there will be a general inquiry as to what gives the peculiarly delicious flavor. Imagination will naturally suspect the presence of strawberries; raspberries, or other fruit. In reality, a small portion of red sugar was the only addition to the plain vanilla cream, the flavor, however, seeming exceptionally fine.

So white is a problem and vanilla is a problem—and the way forward is to introduce additional colors and flavors.

[[UPDATE (June 25, 2018): Ace researcher RaceYouAnytime has found an even earlier instance of "plain vanilla" (actually, "vanilla plain"), with the implication of simplicity and purity made explicit. From "Woman's Pet Tipple," in the Fort Worth [Texas] Daily Gazette (August 31, 1887):

You see, it's this way: The school girls all want strawberry and vanilla mixed, and the dark ones coffee or chocolate, and the blondes they take pineapple or lemon, and the old ladies call for sars'p'rilla, 'cause it’s cooling to the blood, and the girls who come in with fellows want 'just vanilla plain'—kind of innocent and simple, and the young widows always ask for Vichy, with 'a touch of lemon.'

The source of these insights is a waitress who works at a soda fountain.]]

As the website quoted in lbf's answer observes, one early figurative use of "plain vanilla" is in "Willkie Evolves a Plain Vanilla Foreign Policy for Republicans," in Life magazine (October 19, 1942), which, aside from its title, offers this figurative passage:

Whether rightly or wrongly, many a Republican Congressman voted a straight isolationist ticket before Pearl Harbor chiefly because he could not see a realistic solution to the international problem in any statement from the New Deal. The able Congressman John Vorys of Ohio, for instance, while apparently a strict Republican isolationist, has on a number of occasions expressed his open-mindedness toward international solutions, providing only they are real enough to work. And Mr. Willkie's good and generous friend, Congressman Charles Halleck of Indiana, might be another case in point. Certain it is that patriotic Republicans, such as both of these men are, would welcome a plain vanilla Republican solution to the mighty international problem which they must squarely face.

Another early figurative instance again involves political parties, but this time Democrats are "plain vanilla." From "John White Issues Blast at Shivers," in the Sweetwater [Texas] Reporter (January 8, 1954):

The only state official who didn't run on both the Democratic and Republican tickets last fall said Thursday night "cleanly - drawn" political battlelines would separate "a lot of good, plain, vanilla Democrats" from "a few raspberry Republicans."

Agricultural Commissioner John C. White, 29. devoted most of his speech to Tarrant county Democrats to criticism of the Texas' system of cross-filing and political hybrids.

Then comes "plain vanilla" in the sense of "garden-variety" or "dime-a-dozen" athlete. From "Hoot Gibson Proves Grit, Determination Pays Off," in the [Abilene, Texas] Optimist (September 17, 1954):

When February ro[l]led around and spring drills, Herb checked out his uniform and went through some more hard bumps.

After Spring drills were over he was more or less still classified as a plain vanilla scrub.

And again in the context of sports, from "After-Game-Party Held; What a Game And What a Party," in the [Abilene, Texas] Brand (February 28, 1958):

The basketball victory (81–62) played second fiddle to the school spirit displayed by both Midwestern and the Cowboy cheering section.

What would normally have been a plain vanilla game burst into a wide open affair mostly because of the cheering fans.

In short order, "plain vanilla" became a descriptive term for all sorts of inedible things—to the human beings who serve on censoring boards (in the Crosbyton [Texas] Review, August 7, 1958); to theatrical entertainment (in the [Abilene, Texas] Optimist, November 20, 1959); to low-cost automobiles (in the [Fort Hood, Texas] Armored Sentinel, May 27, 1960); to electric ranges (in the Crosbyton [Texas] Review, February 8, 1962); to a shirt color (in the [Denton, Texas] Campus Chat, March 23, 1962); to teachers (in the Tulia [Texas] Herald, April 12, 1962); to everyday people (in the [Denton, Texas] Campus Chat, October 10, 1962); to football formations (in the Crosbyton [Texas] Review, October 11, 1962); to (finally) sex education, although not sex itself (in the [Philadelphia, Pennsylvania] Catholic Standard and Times (June 18, 1965).

The predominance of Texas periodicals in the preceding paragraph is not a sign that Texas was a hothouse of "plain vanilla" idiomatic experimentation; it just underscores how limited other states' accessible post-1920s newspaper databases are. The Portal to Texas History archive is restricted to small-town newspapers and college newspapers—no big metropolitan dailies with their many copyrighted and syndicated stories from wire services and prominent national newspapers—but it still manages to host a respectable amount of relatively recent searchable content.

In any event, it seems unlikely to me that the writers of these various instances from the period 1942–1965 were taking their cue on "plain vanilla" (knowingly or not) from the world of sexual preferences.

As I noted earlier, the original idea of "plain vanilla" was not that it was unappealing in itself, but that it could serve as a base for a multitude of interesting variations through the addition of other ingredients. Inevitably, however, the relative simplicity of "plain vanilla" invited critical dissatisfaction based on the predictability and unimaginativeness of "plain vanilla." This pejorative element certainly lingers as an overtone of describing something or someone today as "vanilla."

  • Well done as always. If you find this citation interesting enough to incorporate, feel free; I don't have enough material to form a complete answer: chroniclingamerica.loc.gov/lccn/sn86064205/1887-08-31/ed-1/… Jun 25, 2018 at 20:51
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    I suspect the "vanilla plain" example is entirely literal. "Plain" means with no sprinkles or chocolate sauce or whatever else might be added to ice cream.
    – The Photon
    Jun 26, 2018 at 2:47
  • Or anyway, not mixed with strawberry like some previously mentioned customers ask for.
    – The Photon
    Jun 26, 2018 at 2:48
  • Hey, Photon… I've wondered for more than 50 years why we said "plain vanilla" - more so recently, as I now work in food retailing where very clearly, "vanilla" is not at all "plain". Finally, your "no sprinkles" makes sense. Thanks for that. Jun 26, 2018 at 19:00
  1. "Was the figurative usage of “vanilla”, as suggested above, first used with sexual reference, and later spread to more ordinary contexts or was it already used in more general context before the ‘70s?"

It appears its figurative use appeared earlier:

Lexiculture: vanilla
A LIFE magazine article from 1942 provides an example of vanilla being used to describe something other than flavor. The article was titled “Willkie Evolves a Plain Vanilla Foreign Policy for Republicans.” It is important to realize that the phrase “plain vanilla” is being used in a very popular magazine that denotes and captures much of what is going on in the world and also popular American culture. The phrase “plain vanilla” would not have been chosen if the readers of the magazine were not familiar with the descriptive choice of words. It can be inferred that vanilla began to shift from a description of an actual flavor to something meaning plain or boring before the 1940s.

  1. "Does the term convey a neutral or disparaging, however slight, connotation, when used referring to people, for instance: a vanilla guy, a vanilla couple etc."

Yes, it does have pejorative uses ... and context is necessary:

Vanilla has a PR problem. As a noun, vanilla refers to our most fragrant and complex flavor. But as an adjective, it is a pejorative. Slate Mag: THE WHITE STUFF




Etymonline is never really a secure source, but in this case it is copying directly from the OED. They still haven't added an adj. sense to their entry on 'vanilla' but they have a draft addition pending since 1997:

[ < the popular perception of vanilla as the ordinary, bland flavour of ice-cream.] Plain, basic, conventional; (esp. of a computer, program, or other product) having no interesting or unusual feature; safe, unadventurous. Used orig. with reference to sexual activity (esp. in vanilla sex). Only occasionally as predicative.adj. colloq. (orig. U.S.).

The earliest cites they list are from Bruce Rodgers's 1972 The Queens' Vernacular: A Gay Lexicon, p. 184 & 205:

Vanilla bar, a gay bar that is not SM.

Vanilla,... rigid, conforming, goody-goody ‘This neighborhood is too vanilla for the licks [sic] of us.’

One thing I did not expect was that the etymology apparently comes through Spanish and French from Latin vagina...


Oh, having looked around a bit more, the OED does have a separate subentry for 'plain-vanilla' under the heading 'plain, adj.'

plain-vanilla adj. fig. (orig. U.S.) having no special or additional features; basic, ordinary...

The earliest cite it offers for this sense is a Washington Post article from July 13, 1959:

After Cococabana [sic], Bethany Beach will always look slightly plain vanilla to me.

In any case,

1) The use of 'vanilla' for bland sex grew out of existing use of the much older phrase 'plain vanilla', which was already being used to describe electronics by a 1975 Forbes article.

2) It remains essentially a synonym for 'plain'. It'll usually be pejorative, because of the accentuation of the normalcy and easy availability of replacement. A vanilla guy might be just what someone is looking for, but calling him 'vanilla' emphasizes that he's garden variety and dime-a-dozen. At the same time, a vanilla or plain vanilla stock swap might be preferable to anything too complicated, where the lawyers would end up eating most of the additional profit.

  • Interesting? But 1972 doesn’t appear to be a date of earliest usages. It appears there examples dating much earlier from what I see from other answers.
    – user 66974
    Jun 25, 2018 at 14:37
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    @user110518 Right. Just letting you know what the OED had, since a it's behind a paywall; b it was responsible for what Etymonline was telling you; and c this use within America's gay subculture is likely where its common 'boring porn'/'tame sex' connotation got picked up, even if that use came from earlier flavoring and Texan (?) senses.
    – lly
    Jun 25, 2018 at 14:44
  • @user110518 A bit more, since I found the OED had a separate unlinked entry on 'plain-vanilla' under 'plain'.
    – lly
    Jun 25, 2018 at 15:12
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    Etymonline has as its primary source, among many others, the OED. The OED and these others may be 'never really secure' but as sources go they are much better than say UD or folk etymologies. That is, your disparagement of etymonline in general is misplaced.
    – Mitch
    Jun 25, 2018 at 15:30
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    No, it's not. It's a one-man version of Wikipedia; he's generally fine but frequently wrong or incomplete (as again here) and it's always better to just go to other sources. It's untrustworthy as a general reference.
    – lly
    Jun 25, 2018 at 16:00

The context of "Vanilla" as plain, or boring, or basic, or simple, or "base material to which colors & flavors are added" did not originate with sex. Sex just got this adjective applied to it as did everything else.

Real vanilla is very expensive and has a very strong, distinct flavor that cannot be matched by the fake food chemical substitutes. Bad "vanilla" ice cream will either not use ANY vanilla at all, or will use fake vanilla flavorings and dilute them so much that even the fake stuff cannot be tasted. Thus, the difference between PLAIN and VANILLA is dramatic. Over time the "vanilla" label got stuck on products that were actually just "plain" to create a false impression that at least one expensive ingredient was used, even if only a little bit, when no such expense was spent at all.

SO, the term "vanilla" as a pejorative depends HEAVILY upon the context in which it is used, and whether or not the properties of "plain" are a positive or negative in the area under discussion, and whether or not the speaker or audience is aware of the complex differences between "vanilla" & "plain". Even if the intended use is pejorative, the denigration is only a slight one.

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    It doesn't depend heavily on context. Any context besides 'ice cream' defaults to pejorative and no one calls anything 'vanillin'. It's great that you're sticking up for a wonderful flavor, but this battle against ironic linguistic developments was lost decades ago.
    – lly
    Jun 27, 2018 at 4:31
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    I think it's significant that we feel compelled to qualify vanilla with real when we are referring to the vanilla pod and to its flavour. The "plain" refers to its colour and to the ubiquitous bland flavour of most commercial (and cheap) ice-creams. "Vanilla" as a pejorative, nowadays, seems to have overtaken "plain vanilla". Maybe a couple of examples or stats will make this answer more relevant. I happen to love real vanilla :)
    – Mari-Lou A
    Jun 28, 2018 at 11:41
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    @ily Vanilla is a perfume fragrance that has remained on the shelves since it was first introduced. So, there is another context in which it's a positive rather than a pejorative. It's also used in scented candles. And food other than ice cream. So, in any literal sense it seems to be a good thing. Even in terms of sex, many people will say, "Oh, no. I'm not into all of that kinky stuff. Keep it plain / vanilla for me." It's only a negative for those who think of it as a negative. Context plays a much greater role than you're making it out to. Jun 29, 2018 at 7:09
  • @lly When referring to an 'idiomatic usage', context is everything. "Categorized as formulaic language, an idiom's figurative meaning is different from the literal meaning." [en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Idiom] If it is not Literal, it is Subjective, and Subjective is dependent on Context for normal usage. I don't do ironic linguistics. Connective linguistics (language is about connections), goes from ‘Content’ at the base, up to ‘Context’ at the third level. There are six levels total. You’ve stopped just short of ‘Distinctions’ (level 4) in your response. Oct 16, 2018 at 14:24

In some simple research, the phrase would seem to have arisen when the synthetic version, Vanillin became the most available and popular flavoring used. That seems to have happen in the late 19th century in Europe, and the 1930's in the U.S.

Real Vanilla is the world’s second most expensive spice/flavoring. Saffron being number one. Of all the flavorings used, vanilla has become one of the most popular around the world.

In the late 19th century, synthetic Vanillin began to be available in wide distribution, making vanilla flavoring more accessible than chocolate. This made vanilla flavored products, made with vanillin, a popular choice.

In the 1930’s, a new process for making vanillin made it much cheaper and it became a staple in every kitchen. It became the most common flavor/spice available. Real vanilla was replaced by ‘plain’ vanillin. People began to be over exposed to it as their main choice for flavored treats: i.e., cakes, cookies, puddings, ice cream, frosting, donuts, etc.

Plain Vanilla began to denote something with very little imagination or work involved. But, since vanilla is still a very popular and expensive flavoring spice, it really is related to vanillin, the synthetic version in every spice cabinet.

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