I have been thinking about this saying a lot in the past week (and yes I saw Prince in concert 30 years ago, and the Ramones the same night), but I have heard it since I was a child. I guess I find it amusing because my European shoe size is 48 and I have only been older than that for a few years. I finally grew up, apparently!

So, where did the saying "Act your age, not your shoe size" come from? US? UK? Can't have been from EU, unless they changed their shoe size units recently.

  • We hear this expression in the US, which makes sense, since typical shoe sizes run from about 6 to 12 (of course, there are some smaller and larger ones). Commented Apr 21, 2016 at 20:15
  • @StevenLittman Mine is 13. "It's like, one more, you know?"
    – user126158
    Commented Apr 21, 2016 at 20:37
  • Here we go: something from the BBC World Service. Thank Heaven.
    – user126158
    Commented Apr 21, 2016 at 20:55
  • Ngram finds an apparent reference in 1965, and another in 1967.
    – Hot Licks
    Commented Apr 22, 2016 at 4:16
  • @HotLicks - are those two usage instances reliable? did you check the real date and the sources or did you just look at the graph?
    – user66974
    Commented Apr 22, 2016 at 7:25

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The earliest match for "Act your age, not your shoe size" that a Google Books search finds is one from 1967 cited in Charles Doyle, Wolfgang Mieder & Fred Shapiro, The [Yale] Dictionary of Modern Proverbs (2006):

Act your age, not your shoe size.

1967 Barbara Schoen, A Place and a Time (New York: Thomas Y. Crowell) 57: "'Why don't you act your age, not your shoe size?' said Paul. He made a disgusting face and ran out and slammed the door." 1981 Pittsburgh Post-Gazette 5 Feb.: "The high school students put their feelings succinctly, when they made signs which urged the negotiators to 'act your age, not your shoe size.'" The proverb originated as an anti-proverb based on "Act your age."

Google Books confirms the Schoen citation as being from a novel published in 1967.

A related anti-proverb listed in the same dictionary is "Act your age, not your IQ," for which the dictionary gives a first citation date of 1995. A Google Books search, however, finds an instance of this expression in Student Lawyer, volume 16 (1987) [combined snippets]:


The New York Court of Appeals ruled that Steve Baccus could not sit for the state's bar exam last February because he was four years shy of the 21-year-old age limit. At 17, Baccus, who attended the University of Miami School of Law and passed Florida's bar exam after receiving an age waiver, is dubbed the youngest lawyer in the United States.

Another early instance of "Act your age, not your IQ" appears in Jolene Prewit-Parker, Homecoming (1990).

A Google Books search also turns up multiple instances of "Act your age [and] not your color," dating back to Clara McLaughlin, The Black Parents' Handbook: A Guide to Healthy Pregnancy, Birth, and Child Care (1976) [combined snippets]:

If you make negative statements to your child about him or black people in general, the child will associate blackness with inferiority. How often have you heard the statement "Act your age and not your color"? What does this tell your child?

All of these expressions appear to be extended variants of "Act your age," which Jonathon Green, Cassell's Dictionary of Slang (2005) identifies as originating in the United States:

act your age! excl. (also be your age!) 1920s+) (orig. US) a term of contempt, based on condemning someone who the speaker considers is acting childishly; also ext. as act your age, not your shoe size!

The earliest search result matches that I've been able to find for "Act your age" are from Life magazine, volume 85 (1925) [text not shown in snippet window]:

"Act your age, kid, act your age," was the prompter's admonition.

and from the [Brownwood, Texas] Yellow Jacket (October 13, 1926):

Fella: I have been searching for you through countless aeons. I feel that we must have known each other since the beginning of time.

Girl: Act your age.

Both of these instances are indeed from the United States.

  • I'm fairly certain I heard "Act your age, not your IQ" in the 60s. I never heard "Act your age, not your shoe size" until this question.
    – Hot Licks
    Commented Jun 21, 2016 at 1:58
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    @HotLicks Not a Prince fan, eh?
    – user126158
    Commented Jun 27, 2016 at 1:07

According to the Concise New Partridge Dictionary of Slang and Unconventional English "act your age, not your shoe size", that is; behave in a manner appropriate to your years , is a humorous extension of the US expression (1986) :

act your age:

  • Behave more maturely! (A rebuke for someone who is acting childish. Often said to a child who is acting like an even younger child.)

    • Child: Aw, come on! Let me see your book! Mary: Be quiet and act your age. Don't be such a baby!

(McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs)

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    So it originated only 30 years ago? That is absurd. I know I heard children say it to me when I was a child. So it must have gone much farther back. A lot of things children say go back decades or hundreds of years. Maybe they didn't think to put it in the online dictionary of common phrases when they said it...
    – user126158
    Commented Apr 21, 2016 at 20:26
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    What @nocomprende said. Pretension of a 30-year history for this is ridiculous. People were saying "Act your age, not your IQ" at least since IQ became a commonly known term. (And it is not very interesting, IMO, to try to find the "origin" (place or date) of such a "saying". It's not much of a saying, IMO - just ordinary language. "Act your age", on the other hand, is a saying.)
    – Drew
    Commented Apr 21, 2016 at 20:34
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    @nocomprende - that is what the available and reliable reference says. Apart from its first spoken usage I think it is interesting what the dictionary says, that is the humorous extension of "act you age" which had through the years different and funny declinations.!!!!! google.it/…
    – user66974
    Commented Apr 21, 2016 at 20:43
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    @Drew - what one may find interesting or not is just a personal issue. The different declinations of "act your age" as the one you mention are an issue that may be dealt with on this site.
    – user66974
    Commented Apr 21, 2016 at 20:46
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    @nocomprende: The point of that expression was to insult the person by suggesting that their IQ was extremely low. It was used by school kids, in particular.
    – Drew
    Commented Apr 21, 2016 at 20:51

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