I read a submission in a newsletter about grammar. Part of the article discussed the use of who and that. The reader is told to use who as a pronoun for references to people and that as a pronoun for references to inanimate objects. The author provided examples: “Phoebe is the person who lives next door to my daughter.” and “It’s the grocery store that is closest to my house.” In closing of this section the author provides the statement, “When did people become objects?”
Aren't who and that relative pronouns? Also, I don't believe the use of who or that are needed in the author’s examples. Composing in plain talk, I would compose the author's examples as: “Phoebe lives next door to my daughter.” and “It’s the grocery store closest to my house.”
Comments please...?