I noticed the other day when serving the public that when asking for something, people were saying "Can I get an xyz, please". The previous time I had such a job it was "Could I have an xyz", or "May I have..." if they were being very polite.

Does anyone know when this trend started and what caused it?

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    Pure speculation: The new phrasing was popularized by rap/hip-hop music. As in, "Can I get a 'what what'?!"
    – Tyler
    Sep 5, 2010 at 22:44
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    I knew someone who speculated that it's because the hard "g" and "t" of "get" are more assertive sounds than the softer "h" and "v" of "have". I like this theory.
    – Seamus
    Sep 6, 2010 at 9:59
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    When we pronounce get, particularly in this phrase, the /t/ is almost never pronounced with the "hard" [t] sound that you are thinking of. It is nearly always pronounced as a tap [ɾ] or glottal stop [ʔ].
    – Kosmonaut
    Sep 6, 2010 at 14:27
  • @Kosmonaut: Speak for yourself :) In British English it's much more likely to be pronounced as a "hard t" than in the US (though it's by no means universal there either).
    – psmears
    Feb 5, 2011 at 9:12
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    The deleted answers are fun to read and they actually confirm that the change is happening. Some people really do get hot under their collar though.
    – Mari-Lou A
    May 31, 2018 at 9:05

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I know the question is tagged “British English”, but for some historical perspective in American English, this kind of request, formulated as “Can I get”, is not exactly some new invention. Here is a passage from a novel written in 1859:

“Have you any work, sir?” was repeated in a still lower and more timid voice than that in which her request had at first been made.

“Yes, we have,” was the gruff reply.

Can I get some?”

And here’s one from a 1906 novel:

Then our hero entered the place. “Can I get a room here for the night?” he asked of the clerk behind the desk.

And here, from a 1938 Time magazine article:

At one ticket counter a soft-voiced woman had the ear of a clerk. “Can I get two tickets to Boston?” she inquired. The clerk asked who the other passenger was.

“He’s in a hearse outside,” the woman explained.

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    I tagged the question as British English because I suspected the habit had been imported from somewhere; your evidence suggests it is American in origin. Sep 6, 2010 at 21:50

As a British observer I can confirm this is an Americanism and is being taken up by young, non-discerning British people who are being influenced by American T.V.

In Britain 'get' has a similar meaning to 'fetch' so a customer in a shop asking 'can I get...' would be suggesting that they actually fetch the article from wherever it is which is surely the duty of the shopkeeper: the shopkeeper 'gets' the article so that the customer can 'have' it.

'Could I have...' is surely the correct way for a customer to request an article or service (at least in Britain).

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    It would be useful to see numbers that support a thesis that this is both an Americanism and that it's being taken up by non-discerning people. (Corpus searches? Breakdowns by social class or education level?)
    – Mike Pope
    Oct 19, 2016 at 13:56

Is the question about the difference between 'Can I ...' & 'Could I ...' and 'May I ...' & *Might I ...'?

I will not address the difference between can and may as this has been discussed in the comments on the question (they are now part of idiomatic English for better or worse).

May and might are known as modal auxiliary verbs. According to the Oxford Guide to English Grammar, 'with modal verbs, we express ideas such as actions being possible or necessary' (p. 78) and 'the modal verbs are will, would, shall, should, can, could, may, might, must, need, ought to, and dare' (p. 113). In most cases, modal auxiliary verbs do not have tenses, and The Cambridge Guide to English Usage asserts that 'May I have a cup of tea?' and 'Might I have a cup of tea?' are grammatically the same, with the second '[seeming] overanxious to let the other party determine your right to the simplest of drinks' (p. 340).

In short: 'Can I ...' & 'Could I ...' are part of idiomatic English, but I wouldn't recommend them. The difference between 'May I ...' & 'Might I ...' is not grammatical but stylistic. All things considered, it is probably better to use 'May I ...' rather than any of the other alternatives as it is definitely correct and does not show overanxiousness.

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    The question is actually asking about "get" vs. "have", not "can" vs. "may".
    – kajaco
    Sep 6, 2010 at 14:18
  • You're probably right. I didn't realise that, because he used 'Can ...' in the first and 'Could ...' in the second.
    – J D OConal
    Sep 7, 2010 at 3:47
  • Would anybody ever say "May I get..."?!
    – hatfinch
    Jul 20, 2015 at 9:25

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