Because of a certain 140 character limit I've learned where I can trim characters on responses but even after all this time I still reply with "Well, so and so . . ." and I go back and have to delete it (even on comments to this site I start with well and then delete it). Is it because that's generally how I would speak a response and I should watch out there too or is this just me?
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Well, it is a context marker, showing that you are launching a story. Examples of context:
"Did you do your homework today?", "Yes" is an acknowledgment of dialog.
"Did you do your homework today?", "Well, yes" means you want to shift to a story.
"Did you do your homework today?", "Uh, yes", another context marker, means that your answer is unofficial, off-the-record, or unverifiable.
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7This isn't true. When it comes to extremely subtle shades of meaning people have a tendency to wildly overstate (if not simply make up) meanings. People should consult the literature on discourse markers if they are curious about words like "well". Commented Aug 13, 2010 at 17:50
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Well, this answer isn’t always true in complete generality, but it indicates something of the flavour of the various usages. It seems to me at least true enough to be useful :-)– PLLCommented Dec 24, 2010 at 6:51
"Well" is not necessarily a needless word. It's a discourse marker. Wikipedia on discourse markers.
It's kind of funny to see you asking us what you are thinking.
My guess would be that you keep doing it because you innately feel like that word actually does impart some important information.
My second guess would be that the information in question is something along the lines of "The words that follow are just musings off the top of my head on the issue you (the other party to which you are responding) just brought up." Without the "Well" it could be taken as some kind of prepared or dogmatic statement, and/or might not nessecarily relate in any way to the previous statement you actually want it related to.
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Your third paragraph is a pretty good description of the purpose of discourse markers... :)– MarthaªCommented Jun 21, 2012 at 22:56
Because it gives you time to think. Another common strategy is to prefix your response with:
That's a good question, ...
Yes, we often write like we speak. It will always polish your English if you go back again and do as Strunk and White recommend: "Omit needless words."