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Jul 2, 2020 at 18:18 comment added Edwin Ashworth Merriam-Webster has this 2019 update: 'Themself: is it ever okay to say 'themself'? ... As singular they becomes more widely accepted—and increasingly adopted formally by even traditional news outlets—the reflexive pronoun that logically goes with it is gaining traction too.'
Aug 17, 2019 at 3:00 history tweeted twitter.com/StackEnglish/status/1162559838406303744
Nov 3, 2018 at 7:17 comment added herisson Closely related: The hidden flaw in “singular they”—what to do about reflexive pronouns?
Jan 15, 2017 at 14:58 history protected tchrist
Jan 15, 2017 at 14:56 comment added 41st I'm a native speaker of the UK and an English language teacher, and I have always used, and will continue to use 'themselves' and 'they' for the singular gender neutral reference: "The child can count themselves lucky they didn't cause a fire." It's fine by me, and widely used.
Jan 26, 2015 at 2:46 comment added user107443 Everyone saying you can just substitute "him or herself" is missing the fact that some people use gender neutral pronouns. Ie.) trans* and genderqueer individuals. So...the correct pronoun to refer to someone who uses gender neutral pronouns would be neither "himself" nor "herself." And sorry...but working with "the queer community" doesn't entitle you to choose a pronoun for someone else. There are a whole lot of genders and pronouns out there. You can no more use "hir" to cover all your bases than you can use "him." It's not a cover-all-your-bases with a randomly selected pronoun kind of sit
Sep 11, 2012 at 16:59 history edited tchrist
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May 26, 2012 at 16:23 comment added Henry The Oxford Dictionary may cast aspersions upon "themself", but the Oxford English Dictionary mentions the use of both "themself" and "themselves" with singular antecedents, with no suggestion that the use is problematic. ("Themselves" is used in constructions where it is paired with things like "Every one", "themself" in constructions like yours.)
May 23, 2012 at 19:51 answer added Peter Shor timeline score: 18
May 23, 2012 at 18:41 history edited RegDwigнt CC BY-SA 3.0
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Jul 24, 2011 at 21:15 vote accept Charles Goodwin
Jul 21, 2011 at 21:18 answer added Shad timeline score: 1
Jul 21, 2011 at 19:23 comment added FumbleFingers Maybe it's an age-related thing. I don't think I particularly interpret himself here as implying the perp is a male. The fact that I do think "he" is more likely to be male is mainly because in the real world more males than females are so classified. "If person could die if he ate rat poison" implies very little about gender to me.
Jul 21, 2011 at 18:41 answer added Caleb timeline score: 9
Jul 21, 2011 at 18:39 comment added nohat I, personally, would just use themself, wide acceptance in standard English be damned.
Jul 21, 2011 at 18:31 history edited Daniel CC BY-SA 3.0
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Jul 21, 2011 at 18:29 answer added Daniel timeline score: 23
Jul 21, 2011 at 18:23 history asked Charles Goodwin CC BY-SA 3.0