> So you're saying I should just **throw in the towel**and do whatever
> they want?

> **throw in the towel** or less commonly **throw in the sponge** (phrase)
> 
> To abandon a struggle or contest : acknowledge defeat : give up  
>[M-W][1]


> **throw in the towel** (idiom)  
>  
>To stop trying to do something because you have realized that you
> cannot succeed  
>   
>*Three of the original five candidates for the Democratic presidential nomination have **now thrown in the towel**.*  
>[Cambridge][2]


  


  

[1]: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/throw%20in%20the%20towel
  [2]: https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/throw-in-the-towel#google_vignette