When 'good deeds' do no good, they (idiomatically) '**kill with kindness**'.

>Kill with kindness : Overwhelm or harm someone with mistaken or excessive benevolence.
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> For example, Aunt Mary constantly sends Jane chocolates and cake and other goodies, even though she's been told Jane's on a diet-nothing like killing with kindness . This expression originated as kill with kindness as fond apes do their young (presumably crushing them to death in a hug) and was a proverb by the mid-1500s.

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