We have the words "incel" (involuntary celibate) and "inceldom" (involuntary celibacy.) It's considered a disease, in the sense that one suffers from it and it has similar connotations to the ones surrounding "dried fish woman." Edit: Let's see, we have a recently introduced _slang_ phrase from Japanese for which I provide a recently introduce _slang_ phrase in English... y'all want "reliable sources?" Neither phrase has made it into the OED or the OJD. Do you think one can do better than Urban Dictionary here? Reliable sources (huge eye roll.)