Is there a word for people you like but are a pain in the ass? Nothing too vulgar. I am not looking to call someone it, but affectionately think about them "that person is a complete [word]". It's for a friend (of the opposite sex, though I don't necessarily want to signal that here).
- oh God Debbie, can you stop being a [word]
I was thinking of 'frienemy' but that may be the opposite. I was also thinking of 'difficult' but it's potentially offensive and patronizing.