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Is there a word for people you like but are a pain in the ass? Nothing too vulgar. I am not looking to call someone it, but affectionately think about them "that person is a complete [word]". It's for a friend (of the opposite sex, though I don't necessarily want to signal that here).
I was thinking of 'frienemy' but that may be the opposite. I was also thinking of 'difficult' but it's potentially offensive and patronizing.
You could say
That person is a complete wind-up.
Oh God Debbie, can you stop being a wind-up?
wind-up
noun
something that is not true that you tell someone in order to make a joke:
You can't be serious - is this a wind-up?
This doesn't really cover the noun description of a person (nor does Merriam-Webster) but
Chambers Dictionary has
wind-up
noun
the taunting or teasing of someone, eg the playing of a practical joke on them.
It is usually a deliberate ploy or joke, but the other party may not realise how annoying their behaviour is, and saying it this way implies they know what they are doing.
