"My husband will always invite his friends round for a drink just as I'm trying to put the kids to bed!" or "My husband will always invite his friends round for a drink just as I try to put the kids to bed!"

  • My husband always invites (will always invite?) his friends round for a drink (just) as I try to put the kids to bed.
    – Ram Pillai
    Mar 24, 2020 at 12:48

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Your example is complicated by your use of "will" in the sense of "habitually insists upon."

Setting this aside:

All simple forms of the verb indicate an action as a whole - from start to finish.

The simple form of the verb can indicate a habitual or regular action that

(i) is/was/will be complete/completed each time it is undertaken.

A: What do you do to keep fit? B: I ride a bike. -> “ride” includes everything from getting on the bike at the start of the journey to getting off the bike at the end.

Or (ii) a single, complete or completed present, future, or past action:

"He told me that I had to visit the Eiffel Tower, so I go/went/will go to Paris on Wednesday” -> “go/went/will go” includes everything from the decision being made, bags being packed, going to the airport, etc., to the arrival in Paris.

The continuous form of the verb indicates

(i) an action that is/was incomplete and in progress at the time that is being referred to (it has started but it has not yet finished) ->

I will be/am/was/have been/had been riding a bike = I will be/am/was/have been/had been in the process of riding a bike but have not yet finished riding the bike at the time I am referring to.

The continuous form used to be known as “the imperfect”: It was called “imperfect” because the action had not been “perfected” i.e. it had not finished.


  1. Imperfect Grammar. Applied to a tense which denotes action going on but not completed; usually [edit Q- but not always] to the past tense of incomplete or progressive action.

1871 H. J. Roby Gram. Latin Lang. §549 Three [tenses] denoting incomplete action; the Present, Future, and Imperfect (sometimes called respectively, present imperfect, future imperfect, past imperfect).

  • But how does that apply here? Are both '... just as I try to put ...' and ' ... just as I'm trying to put ...' acceptable? Does 'just' require a punctive rather than durative construction? Does the 'try' catenation complicate the issue here? Mar 24, 2020 at 12:09
  • @ Edwin Ashworth As the OP asks for the difference, and the difference lies in the verb forms, I am genuinely surprised that you ask. Perhaps you could answer or expand upon some of your own questions - I think that would be helpful.
    – Greybeard
    Mar 24, 2020 at 14:27
  • When one may be more idiomatic than the other, I think it's worth mentioning, don't you? I'd always use the punctive-within-durative option (even though 'just' often triggers a punctive): 'It always seems to happen just as I'm trying to put the kids to bed'. Mar 24, 2020 at 17:11
  • @ Edwin Ashworth. I'm not sure that explains the requested difference.
    – Greybeard
    Mar 24, 2020 at 21:48
  • 'It always seems to happen just as I knit' sounds awful. Knitting isn't punctive. And trying to put the kids to bed isn't either, in my experience. I'd put the second variant in the borderline acceptable category. The first variant is fine. Worth mentioning. Mar 25, 2020 at 16:57

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