I just realised that these questions

  1. Does it feel like you're dying?
  2. Do you feel like you're dying?

Mean the same thing. Maybe other English speakers can notice differences in nuance, but I can't. I guess an argument could be made that the first is less personal, but that doesn't really stand out to me.

How come these mean the same thing?

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    There's a big question about what the 'it' refers to.
    – Nigel J
    Dec 4, 2019 at 17:01
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    "Do you feel..." refers mainly to physical sensations. "Does it feel..." could extend to psychological symptoms, perhaps even oppressive or frightening surroundings, but, as you say, there's no firm difference in meaning. Dec 5, 2019 at 13:21
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    Well, they mean the same thing because they mean the same thing.
    – Hot Licks
    Dec 5, 2019 at 22:43
  • Consider: "Does is seem hot to you, or is it just me". Context and spoken emphasis will change the meaning of the OP. A sentence in isolation is (a prisoner's nightmare). Jan 12, 2020 at 8:27

2 Answers 2


But they don't necessarily mean the same thing. There can be subtle, although quite distinct, difference.

They could be interpreted the same way, but there are certainly contexts where they convey different meanings.

This is very much to do with the possible ambiguity of the word feel.

What follows are two possible interpretations, each using a different sense from Merriam-Webster.

1 a : to receive or be able to receive a tactile sensation
// lost the ability to feel in his fingertips

Here is a possible context:

"I understand you just had a root canal. I can't imagine what that would feel like. Does it feel like you're dying?"

This is a figurative comparison between the experience of having a root canal and the imagined suffering of dying.

2 b : to have a marked sentiment or opinion
// feels strongly about it

Here is a possible context:

"The doctor says you're having a heart attack. Hold my hand! Do you feel like you're dying? Is there somebody I should call?"

This is a literal question, where the person is being asked if they believe they are actually about to die.


I don't think they mean the same thing at all.

Does it feel like you're dying?

Here, "it" refers to a sensation of some sort, whether by internal or external stimulus.

Do you feel like you're dying?

This can refer to a state of being, either physical or mental.

Say you're in the hospital. You've been given a sedative. It makes you feel poorly.

"Does it feel like you're dying?" can refer to the effect of the sedative -- the implication is that the sedative and its effect in the body is the thing that is providing the person with the feeling as though they're dying.

"Do you feel like you're dying?" on the other hand makes no such implication -- here, the question is asking about the current state of miasma the person is experiencing, not about the effect the specific thing is having on them.

That you can ask this question out of the blue to a person and have it imply that the person could feel like death or dying does not necessarily mean that there are not times where you may choose to say one versus the other. It depends a bit on what context this comes under.

EDIT: OP requested examples.

  • Can you give examples of contexts where they have different meanings?
    – minseong
    Dec 4, 2019 at 18:43
  • I think you have a case for the two phrases having different connotations, but I would not say they actually have different meanings. "Does it..." can suggest that there is a specific thing causing you to feel that way, but that's just implied, not explicit. Rephrasing your answer to emphasize the difference between connotation and denotation would probably improve it.
    – barbecue
    Dec 5, 2019 at 22:24
  • But semantically speaking, they DO have different meanings, solely based on what the focus is. That isn't a connotation difference. Each question is directed at a different subject. The fact that they are directed at a different subject entirely means that they mean different things. That they also have a different connotation as a result is merely by proxy.
    – psosuna
    Dec 6, 2019 at 16:50

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