I'm looking for 1 word preferably that sums up this ideology.
I believe that bad things that happen to you are not necessarily bad, in fact using the yin and yang theory or you can't have ups without downs and vice versa.
For example: being grateful that you grew up poor because you will appreciate your riches when you get them, or in extreme cases deaths of close relatives, even your parents, can be good because it can make you a stronger individual and more motivated to succeed for them.