I am trying to describe my sense of humor to be contrary and funny, a bit silly and irreverent (not choosing between 2 choices but making my own choice), and not disrespectfully so. I thought about "snarky", but googling that it shows:
(of a person, words, or a mood) sharply critical; cutting; snide
These words feel negative and hurtful. I want to find a word that is more humorous and light and happy, playful.
It doesn't have to be a word, a good phrase will work.