Let's say you're listening in on/reading a conversation about some topic, and someone in that conversation decides to make their own point. In terms of the point they're making you can agree with them, but the way they handle expressing that point is incredibly obnoxious and off-putting. What would be a word or phrase to describe that kind of mixed reaction one would have to that?
I know that for a while there was a fake German word floating around that essentially meant what I'm getting at (i.e. Waltersobchakeit), but I'm hoping there's something already existing in language to articulate the same idea.