I’m Spanish and I wanna get tattooed a phrase that I always say but in English instead. It’s something like ‘You can’t judge someone for something he hasn’t chosen’ I know it is not right like that, that’s why I want to find the right way to say it. E.g A person has a big nose and there is this guy always laughing at her because of that. That person was born like that, is not something that she could choose
The father of a kid is an alcoholic, but that doesn’t mean he is going to be an alcoholic too when he is older.
I don’t know if it’s a bit more clear now!