A friend’s coworker invited him to lunch via email and in the email he also wrote the below.
if no, please look past my shoulder when you see me next time
What does the “look past shoulder” mean? Ignore me (sarcasm?)
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Sign up to join this communityA friend’s coworker invited him to lunch via email and in the email he also wrote the below.
if no, please look past my shoulder when you see me next time
What does the “look past shoulder” mean? Ignore me (sarcasm?)
from google books:
to look past or by without seeing, hence to refrain from bestowing notice or attention upon Webster's Collegiate Dictionary
As in:
... if no, please ignore me when you see me next time!
As for the shoulder reference ... my guess here is to not even make eye contact.
"Don't look past me" can mean "Don't ignore me", since "look past" can mean (amongst other things) ignore/snub Oxford Dictionary. So the phrase "Don't look past my shoulder" makes sense as "Don't ignore me".
Searching Google and Google Books in tight date ranges, the first mention of the exact phrase "look past my shoulder" is from the song Baba O'Riley by the The Who 1971.