I have come across this word in a book; it gives the example:

If a layman says “I now pronounce you man and wife,” it doesn't make the couple husband and wife.

But when the same words are spoken by a priest, it makes them husband and wife.

The word possibly starts with either "i" or "l".

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    They're performative verbs (this question might be a dup of the one I linked to there). The only reason it makes a difference whether a priest or a layman speaks your cited example is because some people wouldn't recognise the authority of anyone except a priest to marry people. But anyone could say I promise [something], in which case the act of saying it is the same thing as the act of promising itself. – FumbleFingers Aug 13 '18 at 16:59
  • @FumbleFingers Isn't OP looking for a word? My suggestion is wrong? – Ubi hatt Aug 13 '18 at 17:08
  • Thanks for the answer. It is the word I am looking for. I love the forum :) – Wai Yan Aug 13 '18 at 17:40
  • alrighty then! answers provided. question closed! – lbf Aug 13 '18 at 22:00
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    In my opinion the example sentence "I now pronounce you man and wife" has the same meaning regardless of who says it, but it has a different effect depending on whether the speaker is legally empowered to conduct weddings. – nnnnnn Aug 9 at 15:36

In the case of the priest saying the words, the priest is empowered to give them special weight and significance.

From Merriam-Webster's definition of empower:

1 : to give official authority or legal power to
// empowered her attorney to act on her behalf


The priest empowered the words "I now pronounce you husband and wife."
The priest was empowered to make the everyday phrase spiritually and legally binding.

Alternatively, if it really is a word that has to start with i, then the priest imbues the words with special significance.

From Merriam-Webster's definition of imbue:

1 : ENDOW sense 3
// Spanish missions imbue the city with Old World charm
— Scott Pendleton

Endow sense 3
: to provide with something freely or naturally
// endowed with a good sense of humor

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