A person who always asks for favours and if you fail/deny for any one breaks the relationship with you, starts bitching behind your back. This person gives respect only to people who say “no” to him at first or bully him or show-off money power.
Background: Since I was a small kid I have seen my father helping my jobless uncle (Mom's brother) but he has never thanked him. Instead, he curses behind my father's back but remains sweet in person.
After 30 years, my uncle has his own family but due to his attitude, he spends most of these years jobless, borrowing money and asking for favours. Few days ago, my father again did him a favour, talked to some guys and set him on a back office work, because my uncle's kids are going to college and often need money to buy expensive clothes and phones.
We learned that uncle has started bitching about my father accusing him of landing him in a shitty job; its lots of work here and people often have to stay late. My cousins are calling asking explanations, I want to reply and will keep it short because they are also like their father.
I will tell them that your father has been "__this word__" his whole life so go ask your daddy and don't disturb me.
Excuse me for the story, I had put it just to get closer to the word. It's not like I am sharing family issues on global website.