I'm trying to write a sentence like "Be your own fairy godmother", but I don't know if it really works.
The advice I'm trying to give (within a larger context not shared here) is that a woman can act as her own co-conspirator (but without the negative connotation of that word) to arrange/coordinate various factors in her favor so that she can meet and fall in love with the man of her dreams.
I don't really feel that any of the words in the following list really convey what I'm aiming for, but maybe "fairy godmother" is the closest (and other bold ones are better than non-bold).
Do you have any additional suggestions or thoughts?
- fairy godmother
- patron saint