Ok, so what is it called if you are talking to someone and you say

you: I know this will sound mean, but I don’t like talking to most people because they aren’t enough like me (a geek, or weird) to understand what I am saying or get my references.
your friend: I understand your point.
you: See! You just made my point for me!

What is that called when that person does that (in that specific situation, if possible)

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    I don't get the example. You say that you don't like people if they're not similar enough to you. Your friend says she understands you. But that doesn't mean she's similar enough to you for you to like her. To make your point, wouldn't your friend have to say something along the lines of "We're exactly alike in how we feel about people"? – deadrat Jan 15 '17 at 5:32
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    In any event one often remarks, Case in point.” or “That’s exactly what I’m talking about.” – Jim Jan 15 '17 at 5:45
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    @deadrat I also didn't get the example. It will make more sense if the friend says that 'I don't understand you.' That would prove that people don't get what the OP is trying to say, right? Seems like I'm one of those people as the question is not clear to me. – Nikki Jan 15 '17 at 6:20
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    If it makes you feel any better, Leah, I understand exactly what you mean. – Sven Yargs Jan 15 '17 at 9:08
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    You do not make someone's point for them by agreeing with them. You make someone's point for them by acting in a way that illustrates or provides evidence for their assertion. For instance, if you say to your friend, "You're obsessed about your weight" and she says, "No, I'm not. Does this dress make me look fat?", then you can say, "Thanks for making my point for me." – deadrat Jan 15 '17 at 9:19

In your example, your friend just proved your point. (Typically one proves their own point, but it is possible that some external agent can prove your point too - see the example below).


make/prove one's point phrase
If you make your point or prove your point, you prove that something is true, either by arguing about it or by your actions or behaviour.

⇒ The tie-break proved the point.

COBUILD Advanced English Dictionary. Copyright © HarperCollins Publishers

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You take the words out of my mouthTFD

to say exactly what someone else is about to say
"I was just going to mention that, but you took the words right out of my mouth."

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