It's on the tip of my tongue -- something related to a tool like "to pass through a vise". The meaning is along the lines of overcoming a character-defining struggle in your life; the kind a person only goes through once a lifetime.

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I don't know whether characters can be said to pass through a vise, exactly. Gripped maybe the more likely expression concerning vises, unless you want to invoke the idea of escape. But if other tools are in scope, how about forged in the crucible of X, where x is your momentous struggle? Anvils and furnaces are other instances where forging happens and mettle is proved, but I am too ignorant of smithery to say whether they are good tool metaphors.


Rise aboveTFD

  1. Fig. [for one] to ignore petty matters and do what one is meant to do in spite of them.
    "He was able to rise above the squabbling and bring some sense to the proceedings."
  • Always include the relevant definition, and a good example sentence. Hope my edit shows you how to do it. :)
    – NVZ
    Jul 28, 2016 at 17:43
  • @NVZ Got it. I will next time.
    – Ed_
    Jul 28, 2016 at 17:53

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