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For example, "dude," "man," "buddy," "pal," etc, when used to stand in for someone's name. "Hey, pal, how's it going?"

Is there a word for terms like these? Or is "colloquialism" as close as we can get?

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    For "dude" the word "insult" springs to mind... :-) – Baard Kopperud Jun 26 '16 at 19:56
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Informal forms of address: colloquial vocatives, faux intimates, hailnames

What you’re talking about are informal forms of address, colloquial vocatives, faux intimates, or my favorite from William Safire, hailnames. They’re forms of direct address (hence vocatives) used in casual situations as a substitute for you or for the formal sir or ma’am (depending on gender).

The reason Safire calls them hailnames is because they’re most famously used when you’re hailing someone to get their attention, as in Hey X, could you. . . ?” Or “Listen X, . . .” Some of them have other, non-vocative uses, and a few can be prefaced with my.

There are oodles of these, but most of them occur only between men, often young men, in casual situations. Many are strictly regional. Some say something about the age, sex, race, education, or social class of the speaker or the person addressed. Others carry a tone of irony, aggression, or condescension. They impose a faux intimacy if used on someone you don’t know, something many take offence at.

Here’a a small sampling of these hailnames, almost all of which risk being hot buttons of hate for the uninitiated:

  • dude, fella, guy, kid, kiddo, man, pal, bub, bud
  • Ace, Jack, Joe, Dutch, Mac, Max, Skippy, Slick, Spanky, Sparky
  • boss, buddy, champ, chief, sport, shorty, big guy, tiger, killjoy
  • friend, brother, daddy, gramps, stranger, buster, boy, cousin, cuz
  • chum, guv, mate, matey, squire, sailor, sunshine, cobber
  • amigo, pardner, hoss, hermano, mec, paisan, senator
  • stud, hon, love, dove, girl, miss, missy, sister, granny, babe, cutie, good lookin’, sugar, honey, sweetheart, hot stuff, jugs
  • bra, bruh, bro, homie, nigga
  • jerk, prick, asshole, cunt, smeghead, dickbreath, fuckhead, dumbfuck, mother fucker

Only native speakers should ever consider using any of these!

Whenever you address someone by something other than their name or the pronoun you, you risk offending them. Name-calling is risky business indeed.

It is impossible for the non-native to judge the appropriate connotation of these for any given situation. Even for native speakers they risk coming off as artificial or insincere; for non-native speakers, they are a mine field of assured self-destruction that may well get you sneered at or even punched in the face.

Since so many of them are regional or from one particular subculture, whenever someone with an accent other than the region they come from uses one of these, it sounds fake. Fake is bad.

You have been warned. Just don’t do it.

See Also

  1. “On Language; My name ain’t mac, buddy” by William Safire in The New York Times
  2. “PRO-VOCATIVE The dude map: How Americans refer to their bros” by Nikhil Sonnad at Quartz.
  3. “The Heart of Dudeness” by Frank Jacobs at bigthink.com.
  4. Ask Language Log: Why don’t Americans say “mate”? by Mark Liberman.
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    Quite so, old bean! – Mitch Jun 26 '16 at 23:22
  • Hey, gurrrl! Hey, toots! Hey, lay-deez! – Mitch Jun 26 '16 at 23:24
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    I'm taking all my meth back, bitch. – Mitch Jun 26 '16 at 23:25
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    Welcome back! It's so good to see a detailed, well constructed, and original answer for a change. Although, I hear plenty of non-natives using the terms guy, dude. And why not "amigo"? Afterall, amigo is Mexican and Spanish. – Mari-Lou A Jun 27 '16 at 7:14
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    @Mari-LouA One does occasionally hear amigo here in the American Southwest. – tchrist Jun 27 '16 at 13:46
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A term I have seen used but that tchrist has not been mentioned is familiarizer, referring to words inserted in speech in order to solicit or emphasize social solidarity. Geoffrey Leech has a 1999 piece which contrasts it with other vocatives:

Oh yeah dude totally. (AmE)

Since the familiarizer dude here is in the middle of an ongoing exchange, it cannot have an attention-getting or addresss-identifying situation, and so appears to have a purely social bond-maintaining function.

They aren't always used as terms of endearment, of course (I'm not your friend, buddy and so on): not so fast, sweetcakes or now look here, kemosabe or we've been waiting, homeslice almost certainly intend to express hostility or intimidation. I have heard this described as the contemptuous familiar, but as it does not seem to feature in my search results, it may have been a humorous nonce usage.

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It seems to me that colloquial appellation fits well here, sounding less abstruse and technical than colloquial vocatives, faux intimates, or hailnames.

Cambridge Dictionary online

a name or title: As a child, he received the appellation "Mouse".

A search for colloquial appellation in the massive EnTenTen corpus of Sketch Engine yields only three results, but all appear to be in academic contexts of different kinds.

  • Is this a term, however, whether in linguistics or some other field, or is it simply a descriptive phrase? – choster Mar 31 '17 at 4:34
  • @choster Linguists are constantly creating new terms, and one of the problems in linguistics is the wide range of terms for accepted phenomena. I see no reason why this term cannot be used in linguistics for the purpose specified in the question. – Kevin Mark Mar 31 '17 at 5:04
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Another word for such expressions is 'salutations', although like 'form of address' etc. the expressions sound too informal for this title.

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