There was a recent phrase I can't remember for feigning being violated.
I know the word perfidy is sometimes used, but that is not what I am looking for. I remember seeing something on the media and I just can't remember it.
It's like when someone takes offense for something that was never meant offensively, making a big to do about nothing. Similar to positioning oneself to assume the worst in people, never assuming the other person made a genuine mistake.
Think of a person bumping into someone accidentally, and the other person acts as if they have been physically assaulted.