I'm trying to explain to a coworker when I use "We" versus "I" in my work emails going outside of the organization, but I don't know myself.
For example,
Hello,
This morning we were unable to connect the recovery channel at 142.201.223.154:11199. Our keys are current and have not been modified. Could you check for connectivity issues on your end? We'd appreciate it very much.
Thank you.
But then, after getting a response,
I see, thank you. It was indeed an old server we were trying to revive.
I see a range of new recovery addresses in an email from last year, but none match the user and feed addresses for this server.
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Not the greatest example, but I've thought about this distinction before too, and I remember noticing myself using "I" more when I'm at fault, or possibly at fault, or admitting something. As an investigation continues, if the correspondent asks more details, I reply using "we," except when I'm not sure my thoughts are correct, in which case I use "I." Why is that?
English is my first language, and I don't think I'm alone in switching up these pronouns this way. But what is the logical pattern behind it? And more practically, how can I explain it to a non-native speaker of English?