In a recent exchange with a highly eloquent friend (we were discussing a particularly peculiar episode he has pointed to me in a book) he replied to my comments on the episode with an idiom I've never heard before (being an ESL guy). He said literally "Not biting, eh?". What does this mean?
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2why didn't you ask him?– Louis RhysJun 23, 2011 at 2:45
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I did, he took it as me denying I was not biting, the reaction I only completely understood after I asked this question– Andriy VolkovJun 23, 2011 at 19:17
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It turns out he was just using the passage as "bait" to get you "hooked" on the book. Much like adverstising, but in this case, actually for a good cause (being well-read is always a good cause). And since you didn't "take the bait", you were "not biting". In a more alarming context, someone may try to get you into an argument intentionally by "baiting" you.– Joel M WardJul 23, 2018 at 17:57
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"Not taking the bait", from fishing, meaning someone offered you a conversational opening (or an invitation to an argument) and you didn't follow up.
To bite in this context means "to respond to a provocation or temptation". The phrase is understood to refer to a fish biting a baited hook, or possibly to Eve biting into the forbidden fruit.
So in context, something had happened that your friend expected to elicit a response from you. When you didn't respond as expected or intended, he remarked that you were "not biting".
The other answers are great. Another way it's used is when I read a provocative article (as JSB suggests) and in response I'd say "Ok, I'll bite." I then offer my thoughts on the subject.
Interviewer: Why....it's OK to go into the movies and enjoy the violence?
Quentin Tarantino (Annoyed): Yeah...well...it is a movie. It's a fantasy, it's a fantasy, it is not real life. It's a fantasy. You go and you watch...you know...you watch...you watch a Kung-fu movie, and one guy takes on a hundred people in a restaurant. That's fun.
Interviewer: But why are you so sure there is no link between enjoying movie violence and enjoying real violence?
Quentin Tarantino (furious): I don't...I....well...I am gonna tell you why I am so sure. Don't....don't ask me questions like that. I am...I am not biting. I refuse your question.
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This is a fascinating exchange. Where did you find it? (Also: Please note that your answer doesn't actually explain what "not biting" means; it just gives a context in which one (famous) person used the phrase.) Jul 21, 2016 at 5:48
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1Interview video Yes, I am aware that it doesn't answer the question directly, but giving the context can help memorize the meaning of the word more than just knowing its definition Jul 22, 2016 at 6:23