"Let's start looking at things beyond the ____ of judgement."
What I want to say is that, let's stop looking for shortcomings in the things we see, let's stop looking at parts (of things that we see) that we could criticize. Let's stop looking at things like a quizzer (or paper-marker) who is looking for mistakes in the answer written by their student in an exam. Let's stop listening to people in order to find parts (of what they are saying) on the basis of which we could judge the person, and start empathizing with them.
How do I say that?