Why is it "your Majesty", but "my Lord"?

  • Note that it's also "your Grace" (Duke/archbishop), "your Honour" (judge), "your Excellency" (ambassador), "your Holiness" (pope), "your Eminence" (cardinal) - only Lord is "my", though it's often qualified ("my Lord Bishop", for example) Commented Apr 26, 2012 at 16:59
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    @RichardGadsden "Your lordship" can also be used for lords.
    – augurar
    Commented Nov 11, 2014 at 8:05

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First, some etymology. I'll try to keep it short.

Lord has deep Germanic roots. Etymonline says:

M.E. laverd, loverd (13c.), from O.E. hlaford "master of a household, ruler, superior," also "God" (translating L. Dominus, though O.E. drihten was used more often), earlier hlafweard, lit. "one who guards the loaves," from hlaf "bread, loaf" + weard "keeper, guardian, ward."

Majesty was borrowed, ultimately from Latin and together with its meaning. Etymonline says:

c.1300, "greatness, glory," from O.Fr. majeste "grandeur, nobility," from L. majestatem (nom. majestas) "greatness, dignity, honor, excellence," from stem of major (neut. majus), comp. of magnus "great." Earliest Eng. sense is of God, reference to kings and queens (late 14c.) is from Romance languages and descends from the Roman Empire.

Wikipedia adds:

Originally, during the Roman republic, the word maiestas was the legal term for the supreme status and dignity of the state, to be respected above everything else. [...] It was first assumed by Charles V, Holy Roman Emperor, who believed that, as an emperor, he deserved a style greater than Highness, which had been used by preceding emperors and kings. Soon, King Francis I of France and King Henry VIII of England followed his example.

What I take from all this is:

  1. The word lord, originally and all throughout its history, referred to someone, a person (or a personification of God, as opposed to God as an abstract concept). It's only natural to refer to my guardian, my ruler and my master as, well, my guardian, ruler and master rather than your, his or her guardian, ruler and master.
  2. The word majesty, on the other hand, always referred to something, a concept, a trait that was attributed to someone — much like highness, honor, and excellence. When I am talking about a king (or a judge), I attribute majesty (or honor) to him rather than to myself.

Very succinctly, majesty, grace, honor, and royal highness are qualities of the exalted person being addressed, while lord, liege, and king are titles describing the superior relationship of the one addressed (superior to me, that is).

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    This is the best answer by far. Here's hoping it'll eventually get voted above the others...
    – Marthaª
    Commented Nov 16, 2010 at 18:28
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    Yes. That is why in the High Court (and above) in England we address the judges as "my Lord" but refer to them as "your Lordship" - the second is a quality they possess rather than a reference to themselves. Example "My Lord, has your Lordship read the agreed trial bundle?" Commented Feb 11, 2014 at 9:32
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    @Francis Davey Excellent observation Commented Feb 22, 2022 at 19:37

I would venture that lord is a title while Majesty comes from the adjective majestic. So "your majesty" means "you who are majestic", while "my lord" means "the lord of me".

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    I completely agree with the sentiment, but completely disagree with the etymology. The adjective majestic was derived from the much older noun majesty around 1600, not the other way round.
    – RegDwigнt
    Commented Sep 9, 2010 at 18:36
  • @RegDwigнt: But Majesty must surely be a derived adjective, having a +y suffix. Perhaps from the Latin "magister"?
    – einpoklum
    Commented Jul 14, 2017 at 10:42

Explaining "my lord" is easy, "my lord" is the person who is the lord of me. "Your lord" would be the person who is the lord of you rather than me.

The function of the possessive (your, her, his) in "your majesty" or "her majesty" or "his royal highness" seems to be to indicate that the noun indicates a person, but this is some kind of archaic or rare usage.


A little late to this party, but it seems to me that no-one has made the most important point: namely that it's "my Lord", but "your Lordship" -- the point being that one refers to the individual directly ("my Lord"), and the other refers to the same individual obliquely ("your Lordship"), and is a kind of metonymy.

  • "my lord" is a vocative form "Will you have a drink, Bill?" cf "Will you have some whisky, my lord?" "Your lordship" is generally used in place of a pronoun - not "As you wish" but "As your lordship wishes". A kind of respectful use of the third person.
    – TheHonRose
    Commented Oct 20, 2015 at 16:45

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