When someone says that "my grandfather built this house", say now or even 20-30 years ago, do they mean their grandfather literally built that house from ground up?

Foundation, framing, wiring, plumbing, stucco, roofing — the works?! Or do they mean it to say "My family has lived in this house for 3 generations since my grandfather [paid someone to] build this house?" Potentially based on grandfather's design/vision. Sure maybe grandpa put in the floors or a custom bookshelf, but did grandpa literally build the house?

  • So seems like we're not talking about a one-man job. Even if the Amish get together for barn-raising, one guy doesn't do it himself. Maybe one guy can build a cabin that has just the walls and maybe a stove. But for one person to do EVERYTHING like plumbing and drywall and etc? Seems unlikely. So I'm just wondering if the phrase really means "my grandfather was able to afford this house years back and he ordered one built here".
    – Vadim
    May 30, 2011 at 0:27
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    I guess one main reason why I'm asking :) is because I just bought a property, tore it down basically to studs and build everything up from foundation to electrical, plumbing...everything. Can I say "I (or 'we' with my wife) built this house"? Because it's more than just "we did a lot of work on the house" since we really re-did everything, however I only did work on it at the end to do e.g. surround sound, but I didn't install the floor. Did "I" build the house?
    – Vadim
    May 30, 2011 at 0:29
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    I think "rebuilt" or "renovated" would describe your situation, either one is much stronger than "remodeled".
    – Ben Voigt
    May 31, 2011 at 4:22
  • It simply means "my grandfather had this house built”. Beyond that, how much involvement the grandfather had with the planning and/or building, from 0 to 100%, is not stated.
    – smci
    Jan 17, 2021 at 16:43

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It means the grandfather invested blood, sweat, and tears to bring it to fruition. Maybe directly through construction, or maybe through some equivalent sacrifice, such as working three jobs to pay for it.

The phrase wouldn't be used for contracting construction for a price which is easily within the means of the buyer. One would tend to use a verb like "commissioned" in that case.

  • I really like the notion that it's the "all in" investment to "build" a house through "3 jobs" like you said. That makes most sense to me. Thanks.
    – Vadim
    May 31, 2011 at 2:41

It could mean either. In some way, he was responsible for the house being built, either by constructing it himself, or just paying for it. There's no way to tell in this context. It's not typically meant to be taken literally, but more as hyperbole meant to create some emotional context for whatever it is the speaking was talking about.

In a similar way, various groups are often claimed to have "built this county". The particular group will vary depending on the person speaking and the point they are trying to make.

  • +1: This is pretty much what I had mostly typed out before your answer appeared.
    – Robusto
    May 29, 2011 at 22:48
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    Whenever I hear how somebody 'built this country' I always picture Slartibartfast's signature on the glaciers.
    – mgb
    May 30, 2011 at 16:45

Surprising as it may seem, quite possibly yes. Of course it all depends where you live and what kind of house we are talking about.

As a rule of thumb, the most agrarian the culture the most probable that would be. In older times, building a house was very much a friends and family matter. Everybody would participate and the beneficiaries would return the favour when the opportunity would present itself.

It is also very much how it still happens today in many developing countries. Taking it to the extreme I know of cases in remote parts of China where the future proprietary sets a date and everybody comes in to give a hand and the house is completed in a few days. This way of doing was still in use a few centuries ago in many Western countries.


It could mean either, depending on the context. People will frequently say they built their house when they mean they got it built for them - and in fact, as an architect, we would often speak of a build being "built by" a famous architect when actually they designed it and possibly managed the construction of it.

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