I'm looking for (a) word(s) that is/are perceived to be child's language by adults, not words used by adults to describe children. What would be fine though are words used by adults when they are faking child's language, be it in playing with children or in mocking each other. Dialectal words from specific regions (i.e. Staffordshire, Big Bend Country, Shannon, Manitoba) would be very welcome!

  • Very interesting question. Let's wait native speakers to answer. Commented Aug 2, 2015 at 10:29
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    How old can someone be and you would still consider them a "child"? Commented Aug 2, 2015 at 11:05

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The word most frequently used by far in American English by children to refer to other children is kid itself.

I met this kid at the playground today.

I'm sitting next to a new kid in class this week.

After that, gender-specific terms to use by a boy would be girl (to refer to a girl) or boy by a girl to refer to a boy. This would be to distinguish the gender because any anonymous child referenced would be assumed to be the same sex.

There are no built-in pejoratives. You'd have to add an adjective or use another noun: "That stupid kid" or "that dirty boy" or "idiot" (depending of course on what traits the speaker wanted to single out).

The one word practically never used by a child to refer to another child would be child. Same with children.

There's a bunch of new kids in my class. [not children]


Having had this question in the back of my mind for the better part of a day, I feel obliged to observe that "kid" is probably a bit less likely to be used when referring to a girl by another girl. Not that it couldn't be, but in American English, as in many languages, generic terms seem to have a default "maleness" about them. I don't want to get into the politics of that here, and do recognize that I say this only as an observer, not a proponent. But there it is. In the comments to this question, Brian observed a correspondence between "kid" and "guy" and I do endorse that similarity. I would extend it further to cover this kind of vague male undertone to the word, as I have done in the past. I think the polarity is possibly less with "kid" than with "guy," but I could be wrong.

  • Good. There's also (or there used to be) "guys" for plural boys. Nowadays, "guys" can refer to mixed groups (and sometimes even to female-only groups ). At least among adults—I'm not sure whether children still use "guys" in US. Commented Aug 2, 2015 at 11:03
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    My thumb suck would be that "kid" would only be used by older (maybe 12 and up) kids, while "boy" and "girl" would be used by younger ones. But it's likely to be highly variable by geography and even neighborhood.
    – Hot Licks
    Commented Aug 2, 2015 at 11:53
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    @Brian: I know. For children, guy starts to be heard as puberty approaches and they feel more like beginning the transition to adulthood. "Guy" is still less likely to be used by female children to refer to other girls, though.
    – Robusto
    Commented Aug 2, 2015 at 11:57
  • Girls call each other girls. "I ate lunch with this new girl in my class." If the person said "new kid," it would refer to a boy.
    – ewormuth
    Commented Aug 3, 2015 at 0:30
  • @ewormuth: Yup, see my addendum above.
    – Robusto
    Commented Aug 3, 2015 at 1:01

My son is the youngest in his daycare at 14 months. The other kids (less than 5) call him a baby.

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    But, compared to a 2.5-5 year old (since they're talking)... he is a baby.
    – Catija
    Commented Aug 3, 2015 at 0:30
  • @Catija OP states "looking for (a) word(s) that is/are perceived to be child's language by adults." The daycare workers correct the other kids to say that's X (my son's name), not a baby. Commented Aug 3, 2015 at 2:39

Guy and girl are standard in the U.S. Others for boys: dude, bro (preteen and older). Others for girl: chick (preteen and older, but used mostly by guys). Guy and girl are standard, however. (Boy is not used often except in certain expressions or contexts, it tends to sound very childish).

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