Can you say of a woman that she is "dashing", meaning that she looks stupendous, graceful etc.?

2 Answers 2


A quick search of Google books shows that "dashing woman" has been used before, and FumbleFingers kindly did this NGram comparing the use of "dashing" with relation to men and women, showing that it is much more common to use dashing for men.

Etymology Online gives the origin of "dashing" as "cutting a dash", meaning acting brilliantly, from "dash" in the sense of showy appearance. Indeed, Dictionary.Com demonstrates that the idiomatic use of "dashing" as "make a striking appearance" is still common usage.

So yes, I think a woman should like to be described as dashing. Although you might use "fetching" if you think she wouldn't slap you. As this NGram demonstrates, "fetching" is a bit more common these days.

  • Thanks guys! I'll try my luck tonight actually with that adjective, see how that goes for the lady... I'm French, her British, so there's that :)
    – Krimo
    May 20, 2011 at 13:09
  • 2
    @Guy Fawkes If British women are like American women: if you're French, you can probably use whatever word you want and she'll swoon. Good luck :)
    – Kit Z. Fox
    May 20, 2011 at 13:15
  • 3
    @Kit You were right :)
    – Krimo
    May 23, 2011 at 6:31

Dashing means 'energetic, spirited, showy, stylish' and can be used to describe a woman.

However, it would not describe a woman as "graceful", or "beautiful", or "gentle", but rather more of the "charming", "bright", "lively" description.

Not the answer you're looking for? Browse other questions tagged or ask your own question.