A word for a situation when you are completely confused/unable to understand your duty/obligation.
T̶h̶e̶r̶e̶ ̶i̶s̶ ̶a̶ ̶i̶d̶i̶o̶m̶ ̶i̶n̶ ̶t̶h̶i̶s̶ ̶c̶o̶n̶t̶e̶x̶t̶:̶
Damned if I do, damned if I don't"
T̶h̶i̶s̶ ̶i̶d̶i̶o̶m̶ ̶p̶e̶r̶f̶e̶c̶t̶l̶y̶ ̶f̶i̶t̶s̶ ̶t̶h̶e̶ ̶s̶i̶t̶u̶a̶t̶i̶o̶n̶ but is there also any dictionary word for this situation?
Words like befuddle/bewilder have meaning related to "unable to think clearly", but I am not quite sure whether they also relate to:"one's inability to understand his/her duty/obligation".
Is there is any better word for this situation. Please suggest.
I didn't understand the meaning of idiom, so I have strikethrough it. Plesae disregard it.