A recent New York Times Magazine piece focused on the expression "you do you" (and its variant "do you"), meaning something like a strong affirmation to "be yourself."

The article associates the phrase with a narcissistic "millennial" culture, implying that it has become popular very recently. Regarding its etymology, the author only asserts: "'Do you' certainly sallies forth from black vernacular, even if the nature of its mundane parts makes its origin Google-­proof," which sounds like an appropriate challenge for this forum.

Some comments on this article have posited that the phrase and usage is older, at least dating to the 1990s. Any thoughts on etymology or history would be welcome.

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    This phrase has only really entered my world in the past few years, and I associate it especially with Tyler Oakley who is about as far as you can get from AAVE. I can't even imagine how it would sound in stereotypical AAVE. Interesting question! Commented Apr 2, 2015 at 13:49
  • Do you: urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=do+you
    – user66974
    Commented Apr 2, 2015 at 13:55
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    Short for "you do your own thing" or "you do what defines you".
    – Mike
    Commented Apr 2, 2015 at 14:06

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The full phrase this originated from is "do you and I'll do me". Another variation is "do you - cuz I'mma do me". The oldest reference to the phrase that I could find is from the song Do You by Funkmaster Flex (featuring DMX), from the album Volume IV, released on December 5, 2000.

This could be a variation of the phrase "do your thing", which has been in use for at least a century.


1818 Frankenstein ( Mary Shelly) Chapter 19 excerpt.

Do you,’ said I, ‘enjoy yourself, and let this be our rendezvous. I may be absent a month or two; but do not interfere with my motions, I entreat you; leave me to peace and solitude.

That saying is at least 200 years old! Just stumbled on this post after listening to the read of this.

  • Can you imagine Funkmaster Flex being inspired by Marry Shelly 200+ years later!
    – tomdemuyt
    Commented Apr 11, 2022 at 13:50
  • "Do you" doesn't appear to be a complete phrase or separate instruction in this context, it merely emphasises the command "enjoy yourself." We might today prefer "(Please) do enjoy yourself" or "make sure you enjoy yourself" or "go and enjoy yourself" for similar effect.
    – Dave Burt
    Commented Jun 7, 2022 at 23:47

Earliest quotable reference that I know first hand comes from a song by Giant Robot and Hosni from 2004, here is the quote: "let's just say I do me, you do you, the difference is I know just what to do" - a certain degree of irony that can be detected here indicates that the phrase must have existed for some time already prior to 2004.


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