For example:
Me: So what do you do for a living?
Guy: I'm a fish and game warden.
Me: Interesting. Well I guess I better not tell you about all the salmon I caught yesterday.
I was thinking sarcasm but I'm fishing for another word.
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Me: So what do you do for a living?
Guy: I'm a fish and game warden.
Me: Interesting. Well I guess I better not tell you about all the salmon I caught yesterday.
I was thinking sarcasm but I'm fishing for another word.
If you're inadvertently telling them, I think the word is a blunder:
a foolish tactless remark
or a gaffe:
a social blunder, esp a tactless remark
or simple a slip of the tongue (often also referred to as a slip-up):
an unintentional utterance; a mistake in speaking.
The rhetorical device goes by several names. Paralipsis is one of them.
paralipsis noun Rhetoric [mass noun] The device of giving emphasis by professing to say little or nothing of a subject, as in not to mention their unpaid debts of several millions. - ODO
Here are a few more:
Apophasis is a rhetorical device wherein the speaker or writer brings up a subject by either denying it, or denying that it should be brought up. Accordingly, it can be seen as a rhetorical relative of irony.
The device is also called paralipsis (παράλειψις) – also spelled paraleipsis or paralepsis – or occupatio, and known also as praeteritio, preterition, antiphrasis (ἀντίφρασις), or parasiopesis (παρασιώπησις).
If you accidentally reveal a bit of your strategy or intentions, it is called tipping your hand (as in, accidentally showing your cards during a game.)