What exactly does this expression mean ?

"its not you or her."

I heard this sentence from a native English speaker and I don't want to explain more! I hope this sentence itself would be sufficient for you to help me! :)

Thank you!

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    Commented May 29, 2014 at 15:20

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It could mean

It's not you and it's not her.

or possibly

It's not a choice between you and her.

  • Then apparently he is lying ! ;) anyway, thank you very much!
    – Dipak
    Commented May 29, 2014 at 14:40

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