I was writing an email to my colleague and as part of it I wrote

Would it be possible for you to help me with this?

I felt a bit awkward after sending the mail. Should it be would or will? I know that would is a past form of will but it is also used to indicate politeness. In this case, it was extremely important for me to sound polite and formal. Please advise regarding the correct usage.

I have already seen these questions: "Would" vs "Will" and "Would" vs "Will", but I need some more insights as to when would is used as part of a question asking for a favour.

  • Why did you feel awkward when you had sent this mail? I would say that everything is OK in this mail ...
    – user49812
    Commented Aug 15, 2013 at 14:35
  • 1
    The "two" questions you linked to are the same question.
    – Kit Z. Fox
    Commented Aug 15, 2013 at 15:15
  • 1
    I don't think you need to feel awkward. If you're trying to be polite, 'would' is appropriate. Commented Aug 15, 2013 at 16:52
  • @KitFox: My bad!!!Will update now.
    – Raghav
    Commented Aug 16, 2013 at 13:39

1 Answer 1


Since "would" is subjunctive (http://www.learnersdictionary.com/search/subjunctive[2]), it does sound more polite, while "will" comes off as a bit more directly.

If I understand your situation correctly, "would it be possible for you to help me with this?" connotes, "would you be willing to help me with this, provided you had the knowledge and/or resources?"

On the other hand, "will it be possible for you to help me with this?" says, "will you or will you not help me?"

So, depending on the nature of the question and your knowledge of your colleague's skills, schedule, and other necessary resources, either could apply. You are correct in feeling that "would" is more polite. When used correctly, the subjunctive mood is more polite and often more acceptable.

Your Answer

By clicking “Post Your Answer”, you agree to our terms of service and acknowledge you have read our privacy policy.

Not the answer you're looking for? Browse other questions tagged or ask your own question.