In old books, I keep coming accross the saying,

...is so transparent it could pass through the proverbial wedding ring.

What does this mean?

  • You could look it up.
    – Robusto
    Jan 16, 2013 at 22:37
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    @Robusto - I'm not sure that just looking up the definition of "proverbial" would help the OP to understand the meaning of "the proverbial wedding ring"...
    – MT_Head
    Jan 17, 2013 at 0:27
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  • @Robusto if the OP tried looking it up, they'd be up the proverbial creek without a paddle. (In this case, I used "proverbial" as a way to avoid saying a certain word, whereas that doesn't apply in this text)
    – Golden Cuy
    Jan 17, 2013 at 12:44

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Some makers of some fine, light cloths — or the garments made of them — will boast that because they are so fine, you can roll them up and pass them through a wedding ring. (You are supposed to be able to do this with a Shetland shawl, a superfino Panama hat, a ring pashmina [see where the name is from?] and other items.)

The proverbial in this case means "often talked about in a common idiom, saying or cliché", so it's directly addressing the fact that other people have used the same statement before.

Personally, I dislike this use of proverbial: It's almost like saying "I'm going to write or say something corny and tired now, but that's okay because I'm pointing out that I know it's corny and tired". When I find myself using it, I try not just to cut it, but to cut the whole passage and re-write.

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    I always thought 'proverbial' meant pertaining to an actual proverb - I'm not aware of any such proverbs in this context and I would also have been confused by this.
    – Kyudos
    Jan 17, 2013 at 1:28
  • To restate your last paragraph: The author is hanging the proverbial lampshade on it. Jan 17, 2013 at 2:16
  • @Kyudos proverbial certainly can mean that, but see e.g. Merriam-Webster: "that has become a proverb or byword : commonly spoken of <the proverbial smoking gun>".
    – Jon Hanna
    Jan 17, 2013 at 3:39
  • @BenJackson Yes, only but lampshade hanging can be enjoyable, when it's done better than just saying "I am using a well-known trope".
    – Jon Hanna
    Jan 17, 2013 at 3:40

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