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By "ashamed smile" I mean something like this:

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I thought of the word sheepish, but I think it's more related to guilt? What I'm looking for is something that has more to do with shame, like when someone recognizes you but calls your nickname instead of your actual name.

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    I would say sheepish is just fine, since it connotes embarrassment but not necessarily guilt. The word to stay away from if you don't want the guilt connotation would be shamefaced.
    – Robusto
    Commented Feb 7, 2015 at 14:43
  • I'd decribe that person's smile in the photo as being "forced", "fake", "strained", or even "stretched", pretty much anything but embarrassed or wan = a sickly type of smile
    – Mari-Lou A
    Commented Feb 8, 2015 at 0:00

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ABASHED verb past tense: abashed; past participle: abashed

cause to feel embarrassed, disconcerted, or ashamed. "she was not abashed at being caught"

synonyms: embarrassed, ashamed, shamefaced, remorseful, conscience-stricken, mortified, humiliated, humbled, , crestfallen, sheepish

from Merriam-Webster Dictionary

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A shamefaced smile may fit in your context:

  • feeling or showing shame: shamefaced apologies.
  • There was a trace of another pattern of behaviour in that shamefaced smile.

  • Not that I've ever seen a sheep smile, but there it was — a soggy, sorry, shamefaced smile.

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In the book How to Read a Person Like a Book by Gerard I. Nierenberg and Henry H. Calero, such a smile is named after its shape, oblong, which TFD defines as:

Having the shape of or resembling a rectangle or ellipse.

An excerpt from Nierenberg and Calero describes it thus:

Smiles should not always be associated strictly with happy moments. "Beware of the oblong smile," says Dr. Ewan Grant of Birmingham University. He uses this name for the smile that many of us tend to use when we have to be polite. The lips are drawn fully back from both upper and lower teeth, forming the oblong with the lips [emphasis added]. Somehow there is no depth to this smile. "This is the smile or grimace when one is pretending to enjoy a joke or off-the-cuff remark. Or when a girl gets too much attention from a drunk, or is being chased around the office by the boss."

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