There is no direct equivalent phrase, in the sense that the exact list of qualities would not be associated with an English phrase. The connotation is also tricky - a connotative match would have to be both negative and reclaimed by some of these women. It is exceptionally unlikely that you'll find a denotative and connotative match to something so specific. Thus a translator would have to decide which sense to emphasize in a given situation.
That saidFor this answer, I focus on a match to the literal sense of the term, since the connotative match is so difficult. A more prosaic phrase that captures much of the literal meaning is independent woman: a woman who works and lives her life free of dependence on a relationship. If you are writing for translation today, the term would primarily be used for the more positive, reclaimed sense of the word dried fish woman - the ones who view such a woman as "rational self-sufficient loner women who live just for themselves." (Comment to question by Mitsuko, above.)
History
The term is present at least as far back as the 19th and early 20th centuries, where it referred to women who worked in factories, as teachers, or in other service jobs. This early letter in a periodical called The Texaco Star (1916) represents the negative perceptionearly stereotypes of such women that resemble what you list:
They have a "dead look," attributed by the letter writer to lacking a husband or family to live for. So, at least in the phrase's early history, the idea that she has lost desire for men or family or life itself is present.
That paradigm has largely remained toUsage Today
By the present day, an independent woman has become a more positive label in most contexts. Its negative qualities tend to survive in the prejudices of some commentators who believe that the so-called independence of such women is fake. For example, note the mingling of independence and negativity in these Urban Dictionary definitions and examples. For exampleWithin the first entry, this sounds independentlike the positive version of the independent woman:
But the definition author betrays some prejudice in the example by writing about a woman who pretends to be independent but is actually lonely:
Meanwhile, this Wikipedia article sums up the expression's pop cultural history, and there are many more positive articles about the type like this one in the Huffington Post encouraging the independent woman.
Frequency
So there is a lotSo When Would You Use Independent Woman for Dried Fish Woman?
In one of support for it beingthe comments to your answer, you suggest that the label of the dried fish woman has been reclaimed by at least some women, who view independence from pursuing marriage and maintaining their appearance to be a recognizable phrasepositive step in their lives. IFor these women, independent woman would use it as shorthand forbe an apt translation, representing a woman who worksdoes her own thing and earns her own way with less concern for appearances or depending on a marital partner.
For the more negative stereotype, independent woman would have once encompassed those negative qualities (a woman who has lost some of her spark because she is actually in need of a man whether she admits it or not tied down by familial obligations), but today that usage only survives in rather misogynistic contexts like Urban Dictionary and enjoys going out or traveling alonein very traditionalist op-eds.