Is there a verb which means 'try to find something in common with someone'? In this context for example:
Everyone has the urge to commit a murder sometimes, we both do too.
Don't you try to ... (with me), you criminal!
Keep in mind that this probably isn't a perfect example, but I hope you understand what I mean. I thought of 'sympathize' for a while, but it is not quite what I'm looking for..