closed as not a real question by RegDwigнt♦ Oct 11 '12 at 14:14
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They are pronounced alike. "Spelling" refers to the order and identity of the letters used in writing words, so there and their are not spelled the same. "Pronunciation" refers to the sound of the spoken word, and as you noted, the phonetic guides to pronouncing there and their are the same.