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What are general guidelines for the use of "me" and "myself"?
Did I describe me or did I describe Maria?
Did I describe myself or did I describe Maria?
The two parts separated by or are complete, independent sentences. As such, the presence of the second half ("did I describe Maria") has no impact on the first half at all.
Thus, the question is, which of these two is correct:
The answer is (2), because myself is the object of the sentence, and I is the subject. Outside of stylized usage, if the (grammatical) subject and object are the same entity, the reflexive must be used for the object.
So, to sum up: