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If a girl tells you that she is single and ready to mingle, does mingle here mean that she is ready to “hook up”? ¹


1. That is, to have casual sexual intercourse.

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You can't really say for sure from this alone. There's just not enough context. –  Urbycoz Jun 27 '12 at 9:50
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I cant believe there is tag dating advice. –  speedyGonzales Jun 27 '12 at 11:13
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Don't take it seriously :D It's just there for fun! It may get cleansed at some point. –  Matt Эллен Jun 27 '12 at 11:59
    
@speedyGonzales I always seek dating advice from a group of geeky linguists and English teachers. If they're not available, I try to find a guy who lives in his parents' basement and plays video games all day. :-) –  Jay Jun 27 '12 at 15:52
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It occurs to me that the best way to find the answer to your question is not to post here, but to suggest a hook up to the girl in question. If she agrees, then the answer is yes. If she punches you in the face, the answer is probably no. –  Jay Jun 27 '12 at 15:54

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In general, to "mingle" means to mix or combine. You might say, for example, "The blue and red marbles were mingled together", meaning they were mixed.

It is common to talk of people mingling, meaning that they are spending time with others. E.g., "I'm going to go to Sally's party and mingle with other people" or "He mingled with artists and writers."

"Single and ready to mingle" is a stock phrase meaning that a person is no longer in a committed relationship to one other person and so is now looking for another partner. I thought it was pretty obsolete: I haven't heard it in many years until now.

It does not imply that the person is interested in a one-night-stand. The person MIGHT have that in mind, but the phrase itself simply indicates a willingness to date.

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+1 Jay. Despite all your negative comments you pretty much ace that question. Thanks mate. –  speedyGonzales Jun 28 '12 at 5:07

It means that the girl is ready to start looking for potential partners again. She is ready to get back into the dating scene and mingle with people she is attracted to.

One could imply that her last break up left her reluctant to get back into the dating scene, and being "ready to mingle" means she is over her mourning period.

It does not necessarily mean she is ready to hook up (i.e. have sexual intercourse).

This interpretation works for people of any sex, too, not just girls.

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Does "hook up" really mean "have sexual intercourse"? Maybe I'm just a bit old-fashioned. –  Urbycoz Jun 27 '12 at 9:49
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@Urbycoz not exclusively, but yes it does. –  Matt Эллен Jun 27 '12 at 9:59
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A one night stand is a hook up. –  Matt Эллен Jun 27 '12 at 11:07
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Speaking as someone who has studied psychology, yes. Normal human beings mourn at the end of an important and deeply felt relationship. People mourn in many and varied ways. –  Matt Эллен Jun 27 '12 at 11:51
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@speedyGonzales I don't claim to be an expert on the latest youth slang, but I think "hook up" pretty much refers ONLY to a short sexual relationship such as a one-night stand. I don't think a marriage would be called a "hook up". I'll gladly defer to anyone more knowledgable about the latest hip jive. :-) –  Jay Jun 27 '12 at 15:49

It means the girl wants to talk to you and know you more . To be more precise , she is ready to go on a date with you .

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she is single and is ready to date with you.

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