How do I know when to keep r silent in pronunciation?
Yes. In so-called non-rhotic pronunciations of English (which includes what are perceived as 'standard' British pronunciations), a written 'r' does not actually represent an 'r' sound when it is syllable-final.
On the other hand, the case of "iron" is simply a rare exception.
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