Do you capitalize both parts of a hyphenated word in a title?
"My Ex-Wife Hates Me"
"My Ex-wife Hates Me"
Capitalization of hyphenated words in general is really more a question of style than anything else.
From Garbl's writing center:
In your case, since "ex-" is a prefix:
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