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I want to know a good word for a buddy who only helps, but never takes any help, and he is with you only to help you.

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selfless is a good term. –  mkennedy Aug 25 '11 at 5:38
    
Selfless may or may not be appropriate. Cynically, it may be that they like to meddle in others' affairs but have no one know about their own. Perhaps even "standoffish" or "aloof" would be apt; though clearly "sympathetic" is too. –  Noldorin Aug 25 '11 at 5:45
    
I'd call such person an ideal friend but it's certainly not commonly accepted word for such a person. –  Philoto Aug 25 '11 at 7:04
    
How about altruist? –  Mehper C. Palavuzlar Aug 25 '11 at 7:38
    
@Mehper: Make it an answer! –  Alenanno Aug 25 '11 at 9:43
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You may use altruist.

unselfish regard for or devotion to the welfare of others.

Cambridge Online Dictionary defines altruism as follows:

willingness to do things which bring advantages to other people, even if it results in disadvantage for yourself.

Wikipedia has a page for altruism as well.

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+1 This is the word that came to my mind and I then I saw your comment :D –  Alenanno Aug 25 '11 at 12:05
    
Great minds think alike =) –  Mehper C. Palavuzlar Aug 25 '11 at 12:06
    
:D eheh I suppose. –  Alenanno Aug 25 '11 at 12:07
    
There is even a badge called Altruist. –  Mehper C. Palavuzlar Aug 25 '11 at 19:49
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Perhaps you could call that person a "guardian angel", meaning:

a person who looks after or is concerned with the welfare of another.

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It's probably a cultural or personal choice of words, but the difference between "friend" and "buddy" or "acquaintance" is the lack of selfishness or the amount of good motive when dealing with each other.

So how about just "friend"?

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I thought the difference was that an acquaintance will bail you out of jail, while a friend is in the cell with you. :-) –  T.E.D. Aug 25 '11 at 17:52
    
Hehe, good idea. But would an acquaintance really bail you out, except for his own interest maybe? –  Raku Aug 26 '11 at 8:30
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Ally

I think Ally would fit better because He/she is An associate who provides cooperation or assistance.

and synonyms for Ally is Friend.

Thank you :)

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Why it got negaive vote ? –  Rahul Mehta Aug 25 '11 at 6:01
    
I don't know why. According to me i am making perfect sense here. isn't it Rahul? –  Abid Aug 25 '11 at 6:05
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I didnt downvote, but the US and UK are allies. That doesn't necessarily mean the help is only in one direction. –  JoseK Aug 25 '11 at 6:41
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When you are allies, you are expected (though not necessarily obligated) to give help to the other side of alliance too i.e. it is two-sided. The question is about someone involved one-sided assistance relationship. –  syockit Aug 25 '11 at 6:54
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Probably (since it wasn't me who downvoted you answer) because ally is not what OP is looking for. Ally does not imply, that this person wouldn't require help in exchange, more, alliances are usually based on mutual help, which means your allies will require something of you in exchange for their help. Friend here would be more appropriate, but still not exactly what the OP wanted. –  Philoto Aug 25 '11 at 7:00
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