Why is 'that' sometimes optional before dependent clauses?

Question

Sometimes, the word 'that' to introduce a dependent clause is optional. For example, these sentences both make sense with or without 'that':

Long books [that] religious people like tend to be Bibles.

Water tanks [that] fish need are spacious.

... whereas in these sentences, 'that' is mandatory and the sentence is ungrammatical without it:

Those that are rotten must be thrown away.

Cars that break down endanger pedestrians.

I can't quite put my finger on the rule which determines when 'that' must be used. What is it?

Answer 1

In both of the examples in which that is optional, the relative pronoun is the object of the embedded clause.

Long books [that] religious people like tend to be Bibles. [Religious people like long books.]

Water tanks [that] fish need are spacious. [Fish need water tanks.]

In your other examples, the relative pronoun is the subject of the embedded clause:

Those that are rotten must be thrown away. [Those are rotten.]

Cars that break down endanger pedestrians. [Cars break down.]

English only allows you to omit that when it has been moved from the object position of the embedded clause. I suspect that the reason for this is the ease of comprehension on the part of the listener. A sentence like Cars break down endanger pedestrians, if it were grammatical, would be extremely hard to parse.