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I have searched everywhere, but I cannot find a word or two words that define the following:

To be completely invisible except to those who have been chosen.

Basically, I am in search of a word that means "to be invisible to everyone except the people I choose".

Is there such a word? Or is there more than one word for this?

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Um, I guess. I'm making a little forum for a website i'm working on, and one of the requirements is that people can add each other and there's so many options it has to have that revolve around sending/receiving stuff to/from other "friends" on this forum. And I've been told that the privacy has to be as good as possible. And they're giving this forum a name of its own, so I was just wondering what the best word would be to describe being able to completely be invisible to everyone except the people you choose – Paul Vitti Jun 19 '11 at 11:47
I really just think "private" is the best choice, for the exact web-site situation you describe. (Private, with some further explanations. So, "Your name remains totally private. It is only revealed to other members of your choosing." – Joe Blow Jun 19 '11 at 19:09
@Joe Blow: That wouldn't be remains totally private, then. It'd be is private by default, but can be [selectively] revealed to other members [of your choosing]. – FumbleFingers Jul 21 '11 at 15:32
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How about selective visibility?

selective |səˈlɛktɪv| • (of a process or agent) affecting some things and not others

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Heh, that's awesome. I don't know how we didn't think of that - they're both words we use in everyday language over here (they actually keywords of a programming language I use). Great choice, and thanks! – Paul Vitti Jun 18 '11 at 17:47

Some words in the same general area of meaning are:

cryptic - which literally means "hidden" or "disguised", and esoteric - able to be understood only by those with special/secret knowledge.

A recent metaphor in this area is "dogwhistle" - a word or phrase that is meant to convey some special meaning to a chosen audience, while being (in effect) imperceptible to everyone else.

E.g. there are some words and phrases used by politicians to appeal to racist or other intolerant attitudes without being overtly offensive.

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